Dr. Lou Bordisso, LMFT

California · 35 years in practice

Dr. Lou Bordisso brings 35 years of clinical experience to his work with adults in California.

License and registration

LMFT, California
22768 · expires March 2026
NPI
1295991602 · national provider identifier
Years in practice
35
Languages
English

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About Lou

Dr. Lou Bordisso brings 35 years of clinical experience to his work with adults in California. He centers sessions on the person in front of him and on the questions they bring.

He helps people who are wrestling with anxiety, depression, grief, relationship and intimacy concerns, and issues connected to identity and life transitions. His approach draws on existential perspectives that encourage honest reflection about values, meaning, and choice. He also uses client-centered methods to follow what matters most to each person.

Background and approach

Cognitive behavioral tools and mindfulness practices are introduced when they fit the client’s goals and preferences. Clients often come with struggles related to stress, career pressure, or self-esteem. Others bring addiction concerns, chronic illness, caregiving strain, body image, or attachment and abandonment wounds.

He also works with people navigating issues connected to LGBT identity, commitment difficulties, and alternative sexual cultures such as BDSM and kink. Dr. Bordisso describes therapy as practical and conversational.

Sessions typically focus on identifying patterns that cause pain, testing small changes, and strengthening communication and coping skills. He supports people as they try out new ways of relating and living. He holds a California licensed marriage and family therapist credential, LMFT, and offers services in English.

For those seeking to begin, he guides people through a clear intake and matching process so they can pick a path forward.

Focus areas and approaches

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Approaches Lou names

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Online support

Therapeutic approaches you can use online

Dr. Bordisso often blends existential therapy with client-centered work. Existential therapy helps people talk about meaning, choice, and how they want to live, which can be useful for identity, grief, and midlife concerns. Client-centered therapy focuses on following the person's concerns and building a trusting, respectful conversation to help them clarify goals.

He also draws on cognitive behavioral therapy when a client wants to change specific thoughts and behaviors. CBT offers practical exercises and experiments to reduce anxiety, manage mood, or shift unhelpful patterns. Mindfulness techniques are introduced to help with stress, chronic pain, or emotional regulation when those practices match the client's needs.

Finding the right mix is a collaborative process. He works with each person to choose approaches that fit their goals, preferences, and life circumstances. Together they review what feels helpful and adjust methods as therapy progresses.

Online therapy here uses video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging so people can access care in different ways. Video sessions allow face-to-face conversation and visual cues. Phone calls can be easier when bandwidth is limited or a shorter check-in is needed. Live chat and text-based messaging work well for brief updates, homework, or when someone prefers writing to speaking. These options give flexibility for busy schedules and different comfort levels while keeping a consistent therapeutic relationship with a licensed professional.

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Questions people ask

What kinds of concerns does he help with?

He helps people facing stress, anxiety, depression, grief, addictions, relationship and intimacy issues, self-esteem and career concerns, and coping with life changes.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

He uses an existential sensibility alongside client-centered care, with cognitive behavioral and mindfulness techniques added as needed to address specific problems.

What is his professional background?

He has 35 years of clinical experience working with adults on identity, relationships, and life transitions.

Where is he licensed and based?

He practices in California and holds a California LMFT license.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the U.S. work with him?

He does not accept international clients at this time.

What session formats are offered?

Sessions are available as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

How does payment and scheduling work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time. To start, select the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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