Scott Kilousky, LMFT

Hawaii · 4 years in practice

Scott Kilousky is a licensed marriage and family therapist who helps people who are facing addiction, mood struggles, relationship strain, grief, and questions about life purpose.

License and registration

LMFT, Hawaii: MFT-671 · expires December 2028
NPI: 1578167565 · national provider identifier
Years in practice: 4
Languages: English

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About Scott

Scott Kilousky is a licensed marriage and family therapist who helps people who are facing addiction, mood struggles, relationship strain, grief, and questions about life purpose. He offers a calm, nonjudgmental space to talk through what led someone to seek help and to make sense of difficult changes. Scott uses a collaborative, client-centered way of working.

Sessions are guided by what each person brings to the room. He listens for values, meaning, and the parts of life that feel out of balance, then helps people consider choices that fit their goals.

Background and approach

Existential ideas inform how he frames big questions about meaning, responsibility, and change. Scott invites clients to reflect on their beliefs and the stories they tell themselves, so they can move forward with clearer priorities. He also draws on solution-focused strategies to set practical, achievable steps between sessions.

Those small goals are intended to build momentum and show what shifts are possible in everyday life. Scott earned his LMFT credential and practices from Hawaii. He has four years of clinical experience and works in English.

His style blends listening with straightforward coaching so people can feel seen and make gradual, manageable changes.

Focus areas and approaches

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Approaches Scott names

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Online support

Therapeutic approaches and online work

Scott blends existential thinking with client-centered care and solution-focused steps to shape online sessions. Existential Therapy helps people examine meaning, responsibility, and choices when life feels confusing or empty. Client-Centered Therapy centers the person's experience and priorities, offering a respectful, listening-first space to name concerns. Solution-Focused Therapy focuses on small, practical steps and clear goals to create change between sessions and build momentum.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. Scott will listen to your concerns, goals, and preferences and then recommend ways of working together. That plan can evolve as you try different strategies and identify what helps most.

Online formats available include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video calls are useful for face-to-face conversation and visual cues. Phone sessions are helpful when bandwidth or camera use is difficult. Live chat and text messaging work well for brief check-ins, quick coping strategies, or when a written exchange fits a busy schedule. These options aim to make therapy more flexible and easier to fit into daily life.

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Questions people ask

What kinds of concerns does Scott help with?

He works with a wide range of issues including addictions, depression, anxiety, trauma and abuse, relationship and intimacy-related problems, grief, anger, self-esteem, bipolar concerns, ADHD, and stress from life changes.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

Scott uses a collaborative, non-directive approach rooted in client-centered care and existential thinking, combined with solution-focused steps to set practical goals.

What is his professional background?

He holds the LMFT credential and has four years of clinical experience working with people facing emotional and relational difficulties.

Where is he based and licensed?

Scott practices in Hawaii and holds the HI LMFT credential as listed in his profile.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

What session formats are available?

He offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.

How are sessions paid for and what does cost look like?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with Scott?

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